Saturday, September 23, 2006

Romance 101

A few tips to be a romantic guy!

1. Send her flowers unexpectedly. Choose a bunch of her favorite flowers of her favorite colors, and give it with your heart and not commplain bout the price later. Or you can just pluck some flowers from the roadside, we will know when you actually mean it..=)

2. Write her a check for a million kisses, and let her take it to the bank.

3. Have your song playing on the stereo when she returns home from work or errands, and whisk her into a spontaneous dance.

4. For a change of pace ? eat breakfast by candlelight or have dinner in bed.

5. Fill her car with red balloons.

6. Write her a love letter ? it doesn't have to be perfect, poetic or long ? just from you. You don't have to be artsy, cos at least you try, we girls understand it..

7. Have a "play date" once a month, where you get away together for a day of fun. Play ground can be fun too, we just need to play like as if we are still kids.

8. Fill her answering machine or voicemail with romantic messages.

9. Kidnap her? blindfold her and take her to a favorite restaurant, the theatre, the racetrack or another place you both enjoy.

10. Grab her hand when you walk next to each other.

11. Write little notes.

12. Compliment her and have it come from the heart.

13. Be a gentleman (hold the door for her). This is the small small thing that we notice.

14. Take her for a long walk at night, even it's just around the housing area..

15. Draw on or rub her back as she is tryin to rest or sleep..

16. Tell her she is beautiful or adorable... not hot!

17. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.

18. Wake her up to go to school instead of you asking her to wake you up! =p

19. When she is upset, hold her tight and just keep quiet. We girls know that guys are not saints that can help us to solve all the problems, it actually means a lot when you show that you really care..=)

20. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.

21. If you're talking to another girl, when your done talking, walk over and hug her....let her know she's yours and they arent.

22. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend. Always proud of her being your girlfriend.

23. Let her fall asleep in your arms.

24. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she'll hug it everytime she goes to sleep), jewlery(will treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely where it to bed).

25. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone.

26. Look her in the eyes and smile.

27.Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)

28. When she cries, kiss her tears away. Do not mind to take your hand or use your favorite shirt to wipe away her tears + sticky sticky stuff..=p

29. Use your hand to hold her vomit when she doesnt have enough time to run to toilet. This is really sweet! =p

30. Watch any movie with her, no matter how teary eyed she may get.

31. Sing to her no matter how bad you are at it..=p

32. Say cheezy stuff to her just to make her smile..We don't mind you for being lame..

33. Hold her hand through the roughest parts of life.

34. Run your fingers through her hair, like you are washing her worries/troubles away.

35. Tell her she makes your day better, just for being herself..=)

And Lots more.. Will add more later..Remember that It's not hard to be romantic..just use ur heart n use brain and think a lil bit you will come out with a lots of ideas that actually amazed yourself..=)

It's not bout the money.. Small things, small actions matter a lot to us. When you wanna do something for her, ask yourself, you do it with your heart or just trying to let her know that you are romantic.. It's different, and ya, we are smart to see the difference.. =p

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